You're beside me all the time All the time I have loved you and I always will. BODY. Our spoken words of shared grief may help another soul simply make it through their day. Sending you love and strength in this time of loss. Our website is dedicated to helping people find the words when you donât know what to say. Psalm 139:23-24 âSearch me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. First thing is to explore the heart of the matter: your self-concept and confidence level to start (which you can build up in spades inside this awesome free ebook all about finding your own unique vibe! I dream of you in the most special way. Donât hold back when it comes to sharing how you feel. 2017 May 30 âThank you for being in my life, and thank you for the difference you made.â Ruthie McGee. I donât know what to say, but I want you to know that I love you and want to help you carry your pain.â Donât shy away from using your words to weep with someone who canât stop weeping. 6 Words to Say When You Don't Know What to Say Cristina Rutkowski What topic related to Christianity, faith, and the Bible is trending online and in social media today? Every minute, every second of the day. READ 1 Corinthians 1:1-11. Put your heart into it. Words like âIâm sorry,â and âI am praying for you.â Letâs learn together from Godâs Word What to Say When You Donât Know What to Say. âKnow you may only have one chance. You feel the silence and wonder if youâre messing up by not having anything to say. Say What You Need to Say. After all this, you may wonder what you can say, what you should say. You can offer to listen confidentially, and leave it up to the bereaved to let you know if and when theyâd like to talk. When we donât know what to say, itâs easy to pull back. One Sunday morning a preacher was making the point that death is a natural part of the life cycle. 5. There are many ways to express your deep concern and support for a friend or family member when they have lost a loved one. Profound is overrated. Don't know what to do Whenever you are near Don't know what to say My heart is floating in tears When you pass by I could fly. Robbie Miller Kaplan is the author of How to Say It When You Don't Know What to Say, a guide to help readers communicate effectively when those they care about experience loss. As I wrote before, donât overthink it. Donât hold back â say everything you need to say and everything they need to hear.â Tammy Spading Wallace My heart is breaking for you. Donât ask questions. You guys: âI guess I just donât know what to sayâ¦â I totally get it. I know words canât take away the hurt youâre feeling, but I want you to know how much I care. Sometimes the potential awkwardness leads us not to engage at all, which is a problem. I still don't know what to say What to say. If youâre talkative like me, it is awkward when you donât have the right words. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlastingâ (Psalm 139: 23-24). 10 Things to Say. Out of everyone who reached out to me, maybe two or three really had something impactful to sayâand two of them had been in a similar situation and were speaking from experience.